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“I’m going to lunch.”

“Don’t let the dogs loose in the street.”

Everyone wants to create an illusion of the in-joke, the bit of information that only you and they share. When it’s your close friends doing it, that’s easy. When it’s people you’ve just met, the exchange is forced — because they don’t know you beyond the caricature they’ve built in their mind, composed of the few facts which you’ve allowed them to be privy to.

It doesn’t promote a feeling of camraderie to hear someone say “Heard any more kids call you old nekkid guy?” if that’s the only part of your ‘story’ that they know; it just emphasizes how little they know about you.


Comments

Frankly, it'd be creepy if people asked me about things in my blog.

posted by MT Fierce, March 5, 2002 02:08 AM

Yeah, Doyce, the rest of us work really hard on being inaccessable (in my case that means: what the hell is she ranting about now...?)

You may want to work on being less Fozzy Bear (ooo - looks at the cutie pie puppies) and more bearish (thrown anything edged at that kid you've got boarding with you lately?)

Then people may back off a bit.... or maybe not...

posted by jenn, March 5, 2002 12:35 PM

Someone who's interviewing at my firm found my blog when doing a websearch on my firm's name. That kinda weirded me out and made me wonder if I'd bitched any on my blog about my job.

posted by secret asIAN man, March 7, 2002 06:30 AM



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